Be Your Own Advocate - Ways to Solve and Overcome Frustrations
Ask Questions! Talk to your site coordinator, and other studentsÂ…ask them for suggestions on how to get to know the people at your organization better.
Say hello first! You may not realize it but people who are at the site may be just as hesitant to greet you not because they do not want to get to know you but rather because you are a new face.
Learn people's names! Knowing a name can go a long way so make an effort to remember people's names. It is the first step in getting to know people and make any environment more comfortable (for you and others).
Show Interest! Many people at various sites see people come and go regularly so truthfully if you are expecting to form a meaningful relationship with someone you need to prove that you care about who they are.
Be Patient! Remember that friendships or any relationship do not happen over night, they take time. It is through constant effort and time that relationships are developed. Also do not expect that it is the organization's responsibility to make you comfortable (they already are). It is also your responsibility to get to know the people you will be working with at your organization.
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